If you are a man and you have just suffered a very serious breakup with your girlfriend, I suggest you read this article. No, this is not one of those cheesy writings on ways to get a girlfriend back; I will delve into the understanding of the human psyche so that you can get a general idea of ​​what is happening psychologically whenever a breakup occurs in a relationship.

Since I was a teenager, I discovered that all women, of age, figure, worldview or social status, act the same way once they are hurt: they block the source of such pain. So, don’t be surprised when women completely ignore you after breaking up with you. That’s just his way of making sure you can’t hurt him anymore.

Now that she has become numb to your every word and will dismiss your every action, is there any point in trying to reconnect with her? Of course not, you have broken her trust and spoiled her love for you, believe me, your words mean nothing to her right now. So no matter how much you ask her to come back, no matter what moves you make to impress her, there is no way you can bring her back into your life. Not yet.

Most men don’t realize that the best course of action after a breakup is INACTION. What does that mean? It basically means that you will stop trying to do something that affects your judgment. Therefore, no desperate pleading or asking for forgiveness, not in the meantime. Give your girlfriend time and space to contemplate the breakup. You must leave her alone and ignore her.

Isn’t it a great plan? It doesn’t take much effort on your part, and yet it is effective. The principle behind completely ignoring your ex girlfriend is this: no successful relationship is forced. You didn’t force her to become your girlfriend, did you? In the same way, you can’t just barge in, apologize, and expect your money back. Also, a breakup takes time to heal, and if you fight the healing process, you’re dragging the relationship more and more toward the end.

Many experts say that the average time frame to ensure effective technical inaction is about two weeks. At that point, your ex-girlfriend may be wondering what she’s been up to, why hasn’t she tried calling, and why she completely disappeared from the radar. We agree with the two-week rule because we’ve seen it work in countless relationships.

Here are some of the things you MUST NOT do if you decide to ignore it for two weeks:

1) Text him first

2) Send you messages online (Facebook, email, etc.)

3) Being in the same room for more than five minutes.

4) Actively seek her out in the crowd.

5) call her

The best thing about this strategy is that it works regardless of the situation in your relationship. Even if you’ve broken up with her for months, this will still work. Just block her out of her life in the same way that she blocks you. Look, women love the chase and if the man stops chasing, she will definitely worry and look for you again.